Desperately Leman by Attila Ilhan

“… listen my dear, I will go on a long journey, I want to say some things before my departure.

My absence may be long, from time to time, by listening to what I say, you will determine that: in life, no one can understand anyone, no one can replace anyone; what we call love is either a grave misunderstanding or a bad way of dreaming; as both people try to dream in the place of the other, there is no shortage of dreams!

Listen to what I say, we cannot love anyone other than ourselves; It externalizes and concretizes on a person: harmony cannot be established between them, how can it be established, a successful couple is different from what we think it is! It means two people who have a high tolerance for loneliness: a couple means two loneliness side by side, they could not even be together, it is even difficult for them to intersect!

You will live a life without falling into it and becoming a victim, that is, I cannot imagine anything better than loving someone from a distance, an abstract, almost non-existent person. The beloved who is not nearby is kept alive in the imagination. To keep him alive in the imagination is to make him like yourself, in accordance with the rule I have just explained; Since he will not be with you, he can neither object nor interfere with this: the more you change the person you love in your imagination, the more you make him resemble you, the more you love him, thus the balance is preserved. to love!

To love is basically to take away and go away, the one who moves away from the lover gets closer to absolute love, by recreating the loved one in your heart in your own way…”

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